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Michelle's avatar

So many important points here. You've very succinctly explained (1) exactly why I don't think hanging my own shingle like my therapist has been suggesting will work for me and my personality and (2) why I was always so unhappy at work as a practicing lawyer.

"They’re often running away from something (vs. running towards something else.)" Yes, yes, and yes. That was my career for the longest time. It's only been in the past couple of years that I've even had the time and space to think about what it is that I actually want out of a career. And it is way harder to figure that out now, but better late than never I suppose!

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Peter Davies's avatar

The process of becoming a lawyer (at least in BigLaw) actively selects against good sales traits, it’s all about dealing with intellectual abstractions. I was thinking about what proxies for “good at sales” actually exist and I came up with (1) chasing people to do something, even after it’s clearly annoying them; (2) initiating normal human conversations at those godawful networking events; (3) keeping asking questions to find out what a client actually cares about (as opposed to just taking instructions).

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